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Riwayat al-Bukhari no 6003
101 Doa daripada Hadis2 Sahih, Zahazan Mohamed

Dalam buku ni diceritakan  Usamah bin Zaid r.a berkata: Rasulullah telah mengankat beliau dan meletakkannya di paha baginda, pastu Rasulullah angkat Saidina Hassan bin Ali pulak and letakkan kat paha lagi sebelah..pastu Rasulullah pun baca doa ni...
Doa ni pendek je..boleh lah kite mengamalkan doa yg ringkas ni..nak hafal pun senang...n maksudnye sgt mendalam.. (Nenek n atuk Wafiy masa dukung selalu cakap: Allah sayang dia....instead of ala sayang dia...)
Yang takde anak lagi pun boleh amalkan, masa kita main ngn baby, tak kisah lah anak sedara ke, anak kawan ke, anak2 kat Paeds ward ke...doa kita biar Allah sayang kat anak ni...biar membesar menjadi anak yg soleh, yang akan memperjuangkan agamaNya..bukan jadi macam kebanyakan budak2 sekarang..hancur..kat sekolah dah pandai meraba2..berzina..gaduh2 etc...baru bincang dalam usrah 2 hari lepas...Orang Islam bila tak mengamalkan Islam macam tu la jadinya...Ya Allah jauhkan kami dr melakukan maksiat kepadaMu...
So kesimpulan entry kali ni.. jom amalkan sunnah Nabi, pastinya mendatangkan pelbagai kebaikan dari Allah..InsyaAllah

Kerja Ibadah

Alhamdulillah tadi dapat bawak Wafiy pegi clinic for check up...after 1 month...pegi ngn sumayyah...
Wafiy tgh tidur so kacau2 dia bgn tukar diapers tukar baju..yela nak keluar kena la pakai elok2 sket...
pastu bg Wafiy susu yg telah di express sebelum tu..
Pegi untuk routine medical checkup..berat wafiy harini 3.9kg..naik half kg je since lahir...sepatutnye dah 4kg lebih...tinggi 57cm...Alhamdulillah Wafiy good boy..langsung tak nangis..siap senyum lagi..pastu jumpe dr utk checkup...alhamdulillah semua ok..semoga Wafiy membesar dgn sihat ameen..

ni la gamba Wafiy kat klinik..gembira tak? dalam hati..Ya Allah jangan la nangis...hehe

Kelebihan jadi dr ni, layanan lebih sikit..kita nak dtg pukul 6ptg pun takde sape bermasam muka... tapi sepatutnye la kan kite yg bekerja ni kena bg layanan yg terbaik kat sume org..xkesah la org tu sape pun..
if bekerja ikhlas kerana Allah...bekerja utk mdpt keredhaan Allah.. sume menjadi ibadah...insyaAllah nak buat apa pun kita rasa gembira dan mudah...

Wafiy is already one month old

Sekarang Wafiy dah boleh fokus and follows objects..paling focus bile pandang kamera..hehe..tgk la gamba saya kat atas....dah start cooing...ade la bunyi lain selain nangis...bunyi2 yg comel2..hehe n dah 4malam xtido langsung sebab angin!!! Wafiy nangis dah kuar airmata..selama ni takde lagi..nape yek?

Jawapannya:  

Until 1 to 2 months of age, your baby doesn't shed actual tears when he cries. That's because his tear ducts aren't fully developed at birth. (babycenter) 

Maklang Wafiy tanye kenapa Wafiy nafas cepat sgt? laju..memang la cemtu..baby kan...

Jawapannya: 

At this age, a baby's metabolism is very high, which requires the rapid movement of oxygen into the body and of carbon dioxide out. To make this happen, a newborn typically breathes 30 to 60 times a minute, compared to an adult's 12 to 20. Why the high metabolism? "They're growing like crazy," says Jason Homme, a pediatrician at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota. "Babies will often triple in weight during the first year. It's the fastest period of growth in a person's life."

Wafiy dah 1bulan...dah 2 kali kuar jalan2..mase 2weeks pegi convo ummi Wafiy..jumpa ramai orang.. mase 3weeks pegi kenduri Pakcik Khir..jumpa ramai sedara mara.. n few trips to KK untuk blood taking for TSB (serum bilirubin) sbb jaundice

Boleh ke bawak baby keluar jumpe ramai2 org cemtu?

Jawapannya:

Many parents worry about taking a very young baby outside the house. In fact, in some cultures moms and babies are sequestered inside for a month or longer. But there’s no medical reason not to take a healthy baby out of the house.

Fresh air and a change of pace can be good for people of any age, including babies. It's exposure to other people that can cause a baby to become sick.

To avoid exposing your baby to unwanted germs, limit the time you spend in close quarters with crowds. Make sure anyone who wants to hold or touch your baby washes his hands. Finally, stay away from anyone who's sick. (Jennifer Shu, Paediatrician)

boleh bawak jalan tapi bukan tpt yg ramai org!..alhamdulillah Wafiy tak ape2...
Utk klinik tu..pegi la masa bukan peak hour...Wafiy pegi petang2 lepas abah balik kerja..takde org langsung...

Since birth, Wafiy poop almost everytime after feeding...is it normal?

Jawapannya:

Yes. "Some babies will poop after every feeding and some every three days. It's all normal," says pediatrician Tanya Remer Altmann, editor of The Wonder Years: Helping Your Baby and Young Child Successfully Negotiate the Major Developmental Milestones.Pooping after every feeding is especially common in breastfeeding newborns, says Altmann. If a breastfed baby has a bowel movement after nearly every feeding during the first few weeks, it's actually a good sign — it means he's getting plenty of milk.

Alhamdulillah..risau gak kalau2 susu ummi tak cukup utk Wafiy

banyak lagi soalan2 yg baru diketahui jawapannya...tak larat nak taip...

A message from Melbourne

A long friend of mine during my medical elective studies at Down Under (Australia)....miss yaa!!!!
Really miss aunty Khadijah n her nieces....May Allah give us the chance to meet again..Ameenn

amine kocak (10/11/09 3:40 PM):

Salams!

amine kocak (10/11/09 3:40 PM):

MashAllah tabarakallah!

amine kocak (10/11/09 3:40 PM):

we all send our salam and you have no idea how happy we are for you!

amine kocak (10/11/09 3:40 PM):

my aunty cried when i told her and she said she's been doing duaa fror you everyday and still is doing duaa that he turns into a young pierce muslim man who is strong in both his Islam, deen and emaan

amine kocak (10/11/09 3:40 PM):

ameen

amine kocak (10/11/09 3:40 PM):

i am awfully sorry i haven't written in ages but i have my year 12 exams in 19 days and i am trying to get as much study i can so that i may succeed inshallah

amine kocak (10/11/09 3:40 PM):

please do duaa for me as i need to get 90.5% to get into speech pathology and i am really nervous and trying to stay ontop of everything without worrying too much.

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What I wish I'd known about getting a baby to sleep

by the editors of BabyCenter magazine

"Get your baby used to noise when she sleeps — that way you can vacuum and blow-dry your hair whenever you want (my babies can sleep through both)."
So kepada semua...sila lah bising mase wafiy tido...abah wafiy boleh nasyid n ngaji kuat2...

"If you rock your baby to sleep, when you try to lay him down, he'll wake up and you'll have to start all over. Instead, I recommend putting him down and patting his back, butt, or belly to get him to fall asleep. That way he falls asleep where he lies and will stay there."
Atuk: “letak wafiy kat bawah..jgn manjakan sgt..nanti terbiase”

"Don't think your newborn baby dislikes swaddling just because he struggles when you're wrapping him. He doesn't even realize he has arms and legs, and the swaddling helps contain him so he can be more attentive to falling asleep."
Tapi Wafiy kalau kena swaddle, struggle habis especially if tgh lapar..last2 bukak jugak..lepas die dah kenyang cam ngantuk2 sket baru bleh swaddle balik..tp bile bgn je dah terbukak semua..ganas jugak..tido ikut sape la ni takleh duk diam..ish ish...

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The seventh day

Alhamdulillah sekejap je dah 7 hari baby lahir..hari ni atuk and nenek busy buat kenduri aqiqah untuk baby...Pagi2 kene pegi klinik dulu untuk repeat TSB sbb jaundice... serum bilirubin naik...13.5..kene repeat lagi after 2 days...kesian baby kene amik darah...tapi nenek kate baby langsung tak nangis...kuat anak ummi ni...besar nanti biar jadi pejuang yang hebat... barulah boleh berjuang untuk Islam...memang dari dalam uterus lagi hari2 doa..biar development baby sempurna...boleh berjuang nanti....amin

Balik je rumah kene cukur rambut...alhamdulillah nenek, ummi and abah berjaya mencukur rambut baby dgn licin selama 3 jam... Mencukur rambut bayi adalah antara sunnah Rasulullah buat bayi yang baru lahir...Alhamdulillah baby selamat diazankan n ditahnikkan oleh abah selepas dilahirkan..n hari ni masa utk mencukur dan aqiqah... Sunnahnya utk mencukur rambut baby sampai botak (tahliq) tak kisah baby boy or girl n sebaik2nya dilakukan pada hari ketujuh kelahiran. N rambut yg dicukur tu ditimbang dgn nilai emas atau perak utk disedekahkan pd fakir miskin.

Daripada Anas Bin Malik ra katanya: Sesungguhnya Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasalam) menyuruh agar mencukur kepala Hasan dan Husin pada hari ketujuh kelahiran mereka, lalu mereka pun dicukur; dan selanjutnya disedekahkan perak seberat rambut itu. (HR Yahya Bin Bakir)

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A mother’s love for her child

A mother’s love for her child, a blessing from Allah which doesn’t die
Just the sight of the blessed child brings coolness to the mother’s eyes
Though giving birth to the baby brings the mother unbearable pain
The daily sleep from mothers body is sacrificed and drained
She gets up in the middle of night distraught and distressed
Yet love for her blessed child she won’t deny but always confess
The mother’s hungry and tired working long and hard days
Just to see her child eat, her need for food and rest fades
Allah brings the mothers and child’s heart together to join as one
As the mother smiles and laugh’s, for her child to play and have fun
If the child is unwise, despised by the world as a thief or thug
It’s the mother who will open up her arms to her precious son with love
So many nights the child spends asleep with no care in this worldly life
As the mother stays up watching with care not wanting to leave its sight

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